In the complex web of human interaction, where communication takes center stage, I prefer writing to speaking. The pen has thus become my trusted partner, and writing, the essence of my being.
Verbal communication involves the use of spoken or written words to convey messages. It includes as face-to-face conversations, phone calls, presentations, speeches, and written documents. Effective verbal communication relies on clarity, tone, and context to ensure the message is accurately understood. It plays a crucial role in interpersonal relationships, business interactions, and everyday interactions, contributing significantly to effective human communication.
Within the realms of verbal communication, two options present themselves for choice: speaking and writing. I find solace in the latter for three compelling reasons. Firstly, it strips away the confrontations that often characterize spoken dialogue. It allows for clarity without defensive posturing of persons. Secondly, the art of writing the seamless flow of thought and ideas without interruption. Lastly, the permanence of written words acts as a shield against the manipulation of intentions for malicious purposes.
Delving deeper into the first point, the world is teeming with individuals quick to defend their comfort zones. Verbal exchanges can quickly become battlegrounds, where the mere suggestion of discomfort triggers defensive responses and relentless interruptions. Explaining the harmlessness of words often falls on deaf ears, as personal biases overshadow the message. In this dynamic, oral communication becomes a stormy sea to navigate.
Reflecting on my tumultuous childhood marked by severe abuse in the painful shadows of a broken home, writing became my sanctuary in the absence of a supportive confidante. It provided a canvas to paint my pains and frustrations, while simultaneously giving voice to my dreams and aspirations.
For me, writing transcends mere communication; it is the window to my soul, the doorway to my escapism, and the very meaning to my purpose. The pen and paper are not just tools; they are the conduits through which I breathe life into my existence. Without them, I am adrift, purposeless—a testament to the profound connection between my life and the written word.